Consequences and Attachment
What you really need to know
Have you ever noticed that the conversation on consequences is black or white? Either, theyāre all bad and theyāll damage your attachment or, theyāre a necessary part of discipline and the only way.
Neither is true.
Like anything, when you take the blanket rule, you miss the depth.
And this is what Iāll be sharing with you inside of this Masterclass.
Because the truth is more messy and complicated. The reality isnāt black and white. And these are the hard conversations we need to be having as parents, educators and professionals.
What youāll learn:
Why consequences can damage your relationship with your child and why being afraid to use them can do just as much harm to your ability to lead.
What to look out for so you can feel genuinely confident in where you and your child are at relationally
The hard questions you need to ask yourself about protecting the siblings and the familyās sense of safety.
The role of defences, and the specific behaviours that are important to notice in your child right now
When a consequence might actually be appropriate and what you always need to do alongside it for it to be helpful
The times I've used consequences in my own work and with my own children, and the thinking behind those exact moments.
The developmental lens on consequences and why I would avoid them with a child under 5
The Details:
The Masterclass will be available June 22nd and will be yours to keep.
Questions will be invited a week later during a live call on Monday June 29th 930am, Brisbane time. The replay of the Q and A will also be yours to keep.
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