Consequences and Attachment
What you really need to know
If you’ve heard that consequences damage your child’s attachment or that they simply don’t work and you’re looking for more nuance, join me.
THAT is what we’re exploring in this masterclass.
Like anything, when you take the blanket rule, you miss the depth.
It is absolutely true that using consequences can damage your relationship but so too, can allowing the aggression or the teasing.
It’s nuanced, it’s individual and it takes a deeper understanding of attachment and development to really make informed decisions about if and when a consequence would be appropriate.
What you’ll learn:
Why consequences can damage your relationship with your child and why being afraid to use them can do just as much harm
What to look out for so you can feel genuinely confident in where you and your child are at relationally
The role of defences, and the specific behaviours that are important to notice in your child right now
When a consequence might actually be appropriate and what you always need to do alongside it for it to be helpful
The times I've used consequences in my own work and with my own children, and the thinking behind those moments
The developmental lens on consequences and why I would avoid them with a child under 5
The Details:
The Masterclass will be June 18th, Thursday 930am Brisbane time
The replay will be yours to keep
Questions will be invited on the live call
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