LEARN WHAT IS BENEATH YOUR CHILD’S BEHAVIOUR
So you can address it at the root cause and reduce it once and for all
The Kind Collective is a membership for parents of children aged 2-8 who are ready to move beyond scripts and quick fixes to become the confident, intuitive parent your child naturally turns to for guidance and support. You will learn how to reduce your child's anxiety, aggression, and challenging behaviours by understanding what's really happening beneath the surface.
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The KIND Collective
“Beneath every behaviour there is an emotion. Beneath every emotion there is a need. And when we meet that need rather than focus on the behaviour, we begin to deal with the cause, not the symptom.”
I remember standing in my living room, watching my toddler carefully. To everyone else, he seemed like the perfect, “calm” child – the child other parents envied. No meltdowns. No big emotions.
But my heart knew something wasn't right.
I knew emotions needed to release.
And when I went looking for answers:
👉🏼 I was told I was an anxious mother who needed to relax.
👉🏼I was told to trust his timing and he'd just release emotions when he was ready.
👉🏼I was even told that it was my fault – that I was putting too much pressure on him.
But none of these explanations felt true.
And none of them were true.
Like all Mothers, I wasn’t willing to take an explanation that didn’t fit with my heart.
I kept searching and I discovered what thousands of parents have since learned through my work – that most of us are focusing on the wrong layer of the problem.
Most of us are focusing on the behaviour that we see, the thing we want to reduce.
But that’s actually just the symptom.
That’s not where the transformation occurs.
We cannot solve problems we do not understand.
Once I understood what was beneath my own child’s challenge, I knew exactly how to address it.
And this is now what I teach parents.
This is The KIND Collective.
A place to learn how to get to what is beneath your child’s behaviour.
A place to learn how to work with the emotions and the needs and the defences that are driving the challenging behaviour that you see.
This is what I want for you too.
To not only understand your child's behaviour so you can address it at its root, but to reclaim the confidence that YOU are your child's answer.
Not some therapist. Not some expert. Not some script. Not some trick. YOU.
And this is exactly why I work with parents in the background so children never know I exist. Instead, through these challenging seasons, all they remember is: "My Mum had the answers."
And in their next challenging season? They'll come back to you again.
Because you are what they need.
This is what heals families from the inside out.
Meet Ashleigh
As a Registered Psychologist with the Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency, I bring over 13 years of experience to your family's journey. My Masters in Educational and Developmental Psychology provides the scientific foundation for the transformative "Beneath the Behaviour" framework I've developed through years of working with families just like yours.
My studies at the Neufeld Institute have given me profound insights into attachment-based developmental science—the key to understanding what's truly driving your child's challenging behaviours. This specialized knowledge forms the cornerstone of my approach, allowing me to see patterns and solutions where others see only problem behaviours.
As a mother of two boys, I live this work daily. The framework I teach isn't just theoretical—it's what I use in my own home when challenges arise, allowing me to bring both professional expertise and lived experience to our work together.
I'm passionate about empowering parents to move beyond managing symptoms to truly understanding what's happening beneath the surface. When you understand the WHY behind your child's behaviors, everything changes—not just for your child, but for your entire family.
What families on the inside are saying….
This is where the magic happens ⎯ beneath the surface.
Are you ready to learn what is truly beneath your child’s behaviour and reclaim peace and joy in your home again?
MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
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MONEY BACK GUARANTEE ⋆
I'm so confident in the power of this developmental framework that I offer a risk-free guarantee: If after your first 30 days as a member, you don't feel you've gained a deeper understanding of what's truly driving your child's challenging behaviours, simply let me know and I'll refund your investment..
This isn't just a membership—it's a path to fundamentally transforming your relationship with your child. I stand behind this work because I've seen it create profound changes for thousands of families just like yours.
That transformation begins the moment you join us…
STOP MANAGING SYMPTOMS AND START ADDRESSING ROOT CAUSES
What if instead of:
Constantly responding to aggression after it happens
Trying to talk your anxious child out of their fears
Feeling like your child is "just too much" for you to handle
Wondering why all the "right" parenting approaches aren't working
You could:
Understand exactly what's driving your child's challenging behaviours
Know which of the 7 fundamental developmental needs requires attention
Reduce what's overwhelming your child before emotions escalate
Feel confident in your unique ability to be the answer your child needs
This is for you if:
You've tried validating feelings and setting boundaries, but your child's challenging behaviours haven't changed
You sense there's something deeper driving your child's behaviour but you don't know what it is
You want to BE the answer to your child's challenges rather than outsourcing solutions
You're ready to move beyond managing symptoms to addressing root causes
You want your parenting choices to feel intuitive and aligned with your child's development
This is not for you if:
You're looking for quick fixes that don't address the 'why' beneath the behaviour
You prefer simple scripts over a deeper understanding of your child's development
You want to send your child to someone else to be "fixed"
You're not ready to look at what might be overwhelming your child's emotional system
You expect overnight results without making changes to your life style and ways of relating
Inside The KIND Collective:
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Resource Library
Access a full content library that will show you exactly what is beneath your child’s behaviour and how to get to the root cause.
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Community
Join the live calls or get your questions answered in our community forum. We and 1000+ other members are here to support you.
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Private Podcast
Access a members only podcast that is full of stories and real life examples that will support you in implementing these ideas in your own circumstances.
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The App
Listen and watch all of your content on our very own, Raising Humans Kind App so you can juggle parenting duties and easily consume content at the same time!
INSTANT ACCESS to hundreds of dollars worth of workshops
STEP BY STEP guidance
Step-by-step guidance to identify what's truly driving your child's challenging behaviours
Simple, practical tools to address the root causes rather than just managing symptoms
Weekly support as you implement the framework with your unique child
Take a peek inside The Bonus Masterclass Library
Access everything inside for just $27/month – cancel anytime, no minimum commitment
The KIND Collective
FAQs
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Yes! You can join the monthly live calls with Ashleigh and get your question answered there or you can put your question inside of the forum and Ashleigh or one of the two other coaches will answer it and dive into your scenario with you. You also have access to 1000+ members with such knowledge and wisdom inside the forum!
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I am so confident in this membership that I will give you your money back after the first month if you don’t love it. You need to have watched 3 hours of content and posted a question in the forum and if you don’t understand your child more deeply, we’ll give you your money back!
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I’ve made it so easy to listen on the run because I know you’re a busy parent with a lot on your mind! We have an app that you can download from your App store and everything you need is inside that one space, including all the lessons and the community. You do not need to have social media to be a part of this space.
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Think about The KIND Collective like Netflix, you’re a member and have access to all the existing content (plus any new content) while you’re a member. The fee will continue until you choose to cancel, which is easy to do on the desktop version of your membership site, or you can simply email us and we’ll do it for you with no questions asked.
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It is a month by month basis, which means if you don’t love it after the first month you’re welcome to cancel and will not be charged anymore.